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An Indian woman in the United States gets annual discussions of 5 rupees that move to Bangaluru to the family, which sparked a response on salary, lifestyle and emotional relationships with her elderly parents

Women fear adapting to India’s lifestyle, but she feels the emotional clouds of her elderly parents. (Representative image)

Redit’s publication by an Indian woman who settled in the United States has become viral after she opened her struggle to choose between a prosperous life abroad and her elderly parents withdrawn home.

The 32 -year -old, who has lived in the United States over the past decade, is currently residing in the outskirts of Denver with her fiancé. Together, they earn more than 5 rupees annually, have a home (on loan), and they have a lifestyle that includes regular international travel, home assistance and a supportive social circle. However, despite this comfort, it weighs the idea of ​​returning to India.

In her detailed participation, she wrote: “I was (32F) in us 10 years ago. My masters here have completed nice jobs. Currently, earning $ 350,000 a year. My wife (30 meters) – $ 300,000/general. (Is this enough or I need to negotiate).

She admitted that life in the United States was good for her. “I love my life here. I have good friends, a good comfortable life. I could have a cleaner several times a month, and the highest is to take meal service, and go out several times a month. So there is not a lot of household chores,” she wrote.

Her post also added that she is traveling abroad every quarter, including a visit to India once a year, thanks to the generous holidays in her job. But the emotional stress to watch the age of her parents was getting rid of her.

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“Every time I visit India, I feel frustrated from a rude/angry/people everywhere. Especially on the roads, I can never drive there. But I visit once every year, and I call my father for a month. However, my family in India, and parents get older, every time he visits, betting to get older. She said that the city, friends and relatives.

The woman, whose hometown is in northeastern India, admitted that the return will not mean living with her parents. “So I am seriously thinking about returning to India. However, we do not have any jobs in the local city, so I will remain in Banglor. I wrote.

Her explicit words hit a nerve between the red, which sparked a flood of advice. Many have pointed out that “this great salary is sufficient for a good lifestyle in India” and assured that Bangaluru offers a high standard of living for those who have such income. However, others warned of the challenges of adaptation after a decade in the United States.

Some have noted that the cultural differences that have already highlighted – traffic, anger on roads, and urban chaos – can affect mental losses. One commentator wrote: “It will not be easy to maintain friendship and relationships in India. People are struggling with personal and professional life as well as traffic.”

Many users advised a more account: Continue saving strongly in the United States, building a financial pillow, then returning to India when the work is optional and not mandatory. “If you want, you can stay even without a job,” one of them wrote, stressing the importance of long -term security. Another user warned, “You will not be able to forget a life like Denver.”

One response was cut into the emotional heart of this issue. One of the commentators mentioned that her parents worked hard to give her a strong professional institution. “Your parents have worked hard your whole life to take you forward, to set your career. In such a situation, is it right to leave everything at once?” The user asked, which confirms the fact that even if she moves to India, her parents will remain in the northeast while her career will keep her in Bangaluru.

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